Squirting is a natural part of sexual pleasure. But some women have trouble getting squirting orgasms. This could have to do with our society’s discomfort with female pleasure. Some people think squirting is just pee. But researchers know that’s not true. Squirting fluid is clear and contains urea, creatinine, and uric acid.
It’s a natural response
If you are a woman who enjoys squirting orgasms, there is nothing wrong with this sensation. It is one of the most common forms of orgasms that women experience. According to a study, about 69% of women enjoy this sensation at some point during sex. Squirting occurs when fluid is expelled from the vulva or vagina during sexual stimulation. This fluid may contain saliva, urine, or semen. It is not clear why squirting occurs, but it is believed that it helps provide lubrication and tighten the vaginal walls. It is also known that squirting can lead to a deeper orgasm and a greater sense of pleasure. It is important to note that not every orgasm ends in squirting. Some orgasms feel so good that they never involve ejaculation. There are many ways a woman can enjoy when giving her a squirting orgasm, and the most important thing is to have a deep connection with her partner. Some experts believe that squirting is caused by losing bladder control during sexual stimulation. A study that observed orgasms in a lab confirmed this belief. The participants in this study were required to pee before they began masturbating or having sex, and their bladders were scanned with pelvic ultrasound before squirting and again after squirting.
It’s a sign of love
Researchers gathered information about female ejaculation (or squirting) from 28 women who were either already squirters or were interested in becoming a squirter. They were recruited through existing networks, a Swedish podcast about sexualities and sex, a scientific conference on female pleasure, and an online survey. The participants were asked to share their experiences with expulsing fluids during sexual arousal. A common theme was that many squirters were utterly unaware of the phenomenon until they had experienced it themselves. Even those who had heard about squirting had been confused about the meaning of the term, often believing it was urine. This misunderstanding may have contributed to the reluctance of some women to explore squirting, especially in front of their partners. The amount of fluid emitted varies from person to person, ranging from a dribble to a spurt to a geyser-like stream. Regardless, most vaginal owners can be made to squirt given the correct pressure at the right time physiologically. The best way to encourage squirting is to start with lots of sensation play, focusing on the erogenous zones and clitoris while not entering the vagina until the arousal is high enough. Then, lie down on your splash pad and relax. Light a few candles, scent the air with essential oils or whatever floats your boat, and prepare for a sensual experience.
It’s a way to express yourself
While it’s true that women’s orgasms tend to be more subtle than those of men, squirting can also be a way for women to express themselves sexually. Whether it’s a small stream or a gushing geyser, each woman’s squirting experience is unique to her. Whether she’s expressing herself alone or with a partner, this type of orgasm is a powerful and personal expression of arousal. For many women, squirting may be something they’ve never considered before. Some went their entire lives without experiencing it. However, many women who have experienced it have found that it can increase their sexual satisfaction and enjoyment. Some even find that it helps them to have more control during sexual activity. For a woman to squirt, she must be relaxed and in the right mood. To achieve this, she should use foreplay techniques to build up arousal and create an intimate atmosphere. Once relaxed, she should stimulate the G-spot. This spot is located in the front of the vagina and feels like a spongey mound. The G-spot is closely connected to the bladder, so some assume that women who squirt release urine. While this is probably not the case, it’s possible that the fluid emitted is similar to urine and contains traces of the same proteins.
It’s a way to have fun
Squirting can be scary for many women, and the best way to help a woman feel comfortable is to start slow. Begin with plenty of foreplay, and ensure you’re both well-lubricated – a little extra lubricant may help her release without tension. Once she’s relaxed and in the right mindset, focus on stimulating her G-spot (also called Grafenberg spot or “the squirting hole”). The G-spot has located two-thirds to a full finger length inside the vagina and can be found by pressing on your belly button side. This point is the source of liquid ejaculation and contains glands called the Skene’s glands. The fluid that squirts out of the body during sexual arousal and orgasm is a mixture of the bladder and these glands. The blue color of the ejaculate has led some to believe it’s urine, but researchers have discovered that this is not the case. The blue dye indicates that the liquid contains PSAs (the hormone that signals the release of urine) but not actual urine.